How to stay calm when you know you'll be stressed _ Daniel Levitin


두번째 테드다.


스트레스를 받을 때, 현명하게 대하는 법에 대한 연설이다.


신경과학자인 Daniel Levitin은 스트레스를 받았을 때, 현명한 대처를 하지 못했던 자신의 일화를 소개하며 


스트레스를 받을 때, 코티졸이라는 물질이 분비되어 논리적이고 합리적 사고를 방해한다고 했다.


따라서 우리는 사전 분석이 필요하고, 특정한 매커니즘이 필요하다고 역설했다.


full script



A few years ago, I broke into my own house. I had just driven home, it was around midnight in the dead of Montreal winter, I had been visiting my friend, Jeff, across town, and the thermometer on the front porch read minus 40 degrees -- and don't bother asking if that's Celsius or Fahrenheit, minus 40 is where the two scales meet -- it was very cold. And as I stood on the front porch fumbling in my pockets, I found I didn't have my keys. In fact, I could see them through the window, lying on the dining room table where I had left them. So I quickly ran around and tried all the other doors and windows, and they were locked tight. I thought about calling a locksmith -- at least I had my cellphone, but at midnight, it could take a while for a locksmith to show up, and it was cold. I couldn't go back to my friend Jeff's house for the night because I had an early flight to Europe the next morning, and I needed to get my passport and my suitcase.

So, desperate and freezing cold, I found a large rock and I broke through the basement window, cleared out the shards of glass, I crawled through, I found a piece of cardboard and taped it up over the opening, figuring that in the morning, on the way to the airport, I could call my contractor and ask him to fix it. This was going to be expensive, but probably no more expensive than a middle-of-the-night locksmith, so I figured, under the circumstances, I was coming out even.

 

Now, I'm a neuroscientist by training and I know a little bit about how the brain performs under stress. It releases cortisol that raises your heart rate, it modulates adrenaline levels and it clouds your thinking. So the next morning, when I woke up on too little sleep, worrying about the hole in the window, and a mental note that I had to call my contractor, and the freezing temperatures, and the meetings I had upcoming in Europe,and, you know, with all the cortisol in my brain, my thinking was cloudy, but I didn't know it was cloudy because my thinking was cloudy. And it wasn't until I got to the airport check-in counter, that I realized I didn't have my passport.

 

So I raced home in the snow and ice, 40 minutes, got my passport, raced back to the airport, I made it just in time, but they had given away my seat to someone else, so I got stuck in the back of the plane, next to the bathrooms, in a seat that wouldn't recline, on an eight-hour flight. Well, I had a lot of time to think during those eight hours and no sleep. And I started wondering, are there things that I can do, systems that I can put into place, that will prevent bad things from happening? Or at least if bad things happen, will minimize the likelihood of it being a total catastrophe. So I started thinking about that, but my thoughts didn't crystallize until about a month later. I was having dinner with my colleague, Danny Kahneman, the Nobel Prize winner, and I somewhat embarrassedly told him about having broken my window, and, you know, forgotten my passport, and Danny shared with me that he'd been practicing something called prospective hindsight.

 

It's something that he had gotten from the psychologist Gary Klein, who had written about it a few years before, also called the pre-mortem. Now, you all know what the postmortem is. Whenever there's a disaster, a team of experts come in and they try to figure out what went wrong, right? Well, in the pre-mortem, Danny explained, you look ahead and you try to figure out all the things that could go wrong, and then you try to figure out what you can do to prevent those things from happening, or to minimize the damage. So what I want to talk to you about today are some of the things we can do in the form of a pre-mortem. Some of them are obvious, some of them are not so obvious. I'll start with the obvious ones.

Around the home, designate a place for things that are easily lost. Now, this sounds like common sense, and it is, but there's a lot of science to back this up, based on the way our spatial memory works. There's a structure in the brain called the hippocampus, that evolved over tens of thousands of years, to keep track of the locations of important things -- where the well is, where fish can be found, that stand of fruit trees, where the friendly and enemy tribes live. The hippocampus is the part of the brain that in London taxicab drivers becomes enlarged. It's the part of the brain that allows squirrels to find their nuts. And if you're wondering, somebody actually did the experiment where they cut off the olfactory sense of the squirrels, and they could still find their nuts. They weren't using smell, they were using the hippocampus, this exquisitely evolved mechanism in the brain for finding things. But it's really good for things that don't move around much, not so good for things that move around. So this is why we lose car keys and reading glasses and passports. So in the home, designate a spot for your keys -- a hook by the door, maybe a decorative bowl. For your passport, a particular drawer. For your reading glasses, a particular table. If you designate a spot and you're scrupulous about it, your things will always be there when you look for them.

 

What about travel? Take a cell phone picture of your credit cards, your driver's license, your passport, mail it to yourself so it's in the cloud. If these things are lost or stolen, you can facilitate replacement. Now these are some rather obvious things. Remember, when you're under stress, the brain releases cortisol.Cortisol is toxic, and it causes cloudy thinking. So part of the practice of the pre-mortem is to recognize that under stress you're not going to be at your best, and you should put systems in place. And there's perhaps no more stressful a situation than when you're confronted with a medical decision to make. And at some point, all of us are going to be in that position, where we have to make a very important decision about the future of our medical care or that of a loved one, to help them with a decision.

 

And so I want to talk about that. And I'm going to talk about a very particular medical condition. But this stands as a proxy for all kinds of medical decision-making, and indeed for financial decision-making, and social decision-making -- any kind of decision you have to make that would benefit from a rational assessment of the facts. So suppose you go to your doctor and the doctor says, "I just got your lab work back, your cholesterol's a little high." Now, you all know that high cholesterol is associated with an increased risk of cardiovascular disease, heart attack, stroke. And so you're thinking having high cholesterol isn't the best thing, and so the doctor says, "You know, I'd like to give you a drug that will help you lower your cholesterol, a statin." And you've probably heard of statins, you know that they're among the most widely prescribed drugs in the world today, you probably even know people who take them. And so you're thinking, "Yeah! Give me the statin."

 

But there's a question you should ask at this point, a statistic you should ask for that most doctors don't like talking about, and pharmaceutical companies like talking about even less. It's for the number needed to treat. Now, what is this, the NNT? It's the number of people that need to take a drug or undergo a surgery or any medical procedure before one person is helped. And you're thinking, what kind of crazy statistic is that? The number should be one. My doctor wouldn't prescribe something to me if it's not going to help. But actually, medical practice doesn't work that way. And it's not the doctor's fault, if it's anybody's fault, it's the fault of scientists like me. We haven't figured out the underlying mechanisms well enough. But GlaxoSmithKline estimates that 90 percent of the drugs work in only 30 to 50 percent of the people. So the number needed to treat for the most widely prescribed statin, what do you suppose it is? How many people have to take it before one person is helped? 300. This is according to research by research practitioners Jerome Groopman and Pamela Hartzband, independently confirmed by Bloomberg.com. I ran through the numbers myself. 300 people have to take the drug for a year before one heart attack, stroke or other adverse event is prevented.

Now you're probably thinking, "Well, OK, one in 300 chance of lowering my cholesterol. Why not, doc? Give me the prescription anyway." But you should ask at this point for another statistic, and that is, "Tell me about the side effects." Right? So for this particular drug, the side effects occur in five percent of the patients. And they include terrible things -- debilitating muscle and joint pain, gastrointestinal distress -- but now you're thinking, "Five percent, not very likely it's going to happen to me, I'll still take the drug." But wait a minute. Remember under stress you're not thinking clearly. So think about how you're going to work through this ahead of time, so you don't have to manufacture the chain of reasoning on the spot. 300 people take the drug, right? One person's helped, five percent of those 300 have side effects, that's 15 people. You're 15 times more likely to be harmed by the drug than you are to be helped by the drug.

 

Now, I'm not saying whether you should take the statin or not. I'm just saying you should have this conversation with your doctor. Medical ethics requires it, it's part of the principle of informed consent. You have the right to have access to this kind of information to begin the conversation about whether you want to take the risks or not. Now you might be thinking I've pulled this number out of the air for shock value, but in fact it's rather typical, this number needed to treat. For the most widely performed surgery on men over the age of 50, removal of the prostate for cancer, the number needed to treat is 49. That's right, 49 surgeries are done for every one person who's helped. And the side effects in that case occur in 50 percent of the patients. They include impotence, erectile dysfunction, urinary incontinence, rectal tearing, fecal incontinence. And if you're lucky, and you're one of the 50 percent who has these, they'll only last for a year or two.

 

So the idea of the pre-mortem is to think ahead of time to the questions that you might be able to ask that will push the conversation forward. You don't want to have to manufacture all of this on the spot. And you also want to think about things like quality of life. Because you have a choice oftentimes, do you I want a shorter life that's pain-free, or a longer life that might have a great deal of pain towards the end? These are things to talk about and think about now, with your family and your loved ones. You might change your mind in the heat of the moment, but at least you're practiced with this kind of thinking. Remember, our brain under stress releases cortisol, and one of the things that happens at that moment is a whole bunch on systems shut down. There's an evolutionary reason for this. Face-to-face with a predator, you don't need your digestive system, or your libido, or your immune system, because if you're body is expending metabolism on those things and you don't react quickly, you might become the lion's lunch, and then none of those things matter. Unfortunately, one of the things that goes out the window during those times of stress is rational, logical thinking, as Danny Kahneman and his colleagues have shown. So we need to train ourselves to think ahead to these kinds of situations.

 

I think the important point here is recognizing that all of us are flawed. We all are going to fail now and then. The idea is to think ahead to what those failures might be, to put systems in place that will help minimize the damage, or to prevent the bad things from happening in the first place. Getting back to that snowy night in Montreal, when I got back from my trip, I had my contractor install a combination lock next to the door, with a key to the front door in it, an easy to remember combination. And I have to admit, I still have piles of mail that haven't been sorted, and piles of emails that I haven't gone through. So I'm not completely organized, but I see organization as a gradual process, and I'm getting there. Thank you very much.



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날이 추워지고 점점 연말 감성(?) 맛집에 눈이 돌아간다.


간만에 만난 세비야의 친구들에게, 멋진 분위기와 맛을 갖춘 이태원 피맥 맛집을 소개해줬다.


[ UPP ]




우리가 아는 이태원역 근처가 아닌 한강 방향으로 좀 더 올라가야 만날 수 있다.


가는 길에 분위기 좋은 카페, 펍, 공방, 작업실 등이 많아 눈이 즐거워 걸어가도 좋다.


혹시 날이 많이 춥다면 마을버스나, 택시를 타고 가는것을 추천한다!


나도 너무 배고파서 갈 때는 택시를 올 때는 너무 배가 불러서 걸어 내려왔다~




자유로운 분위기의 UPP


벽돌 인테리어는 또 처음이네..



젊고 개성있는 인테리어 소품들이 눈에 띈다



메뉴판 확대!!


합리적인가격에 피자를 맛볼 수 있다


가성비 맛집!!



대부분의 테이블은 쇼파가 구비되어 있어 


아주아주 편한 분위기에서 즐겁게 피자를 먹을 수 있다.


너무 푹신푹신해서 고삐 풀려 먹어버릴 수 있음....ㅎㅎ



음식을 만드는 부엌과 테이블~~


역시 자유롭고 이태원 특유의 감성을 느낄 수 있다.



그리고 도착한 피자!!


우리는 UPP의 시그니쳐 메뉴인 UPP 피자와(좌측) 네 가지 맛의 피자를 모아놓은 스페셜 피자(우측)을 주문했다.


전혀 재료를 아끼지 않고 팍팍 넣은 모습이다.


이태원에 가성비가 떨어지는 피맥집이 많은데 이 곳은 그렇지 않다.


멀리 찾아온 보답을 맛으로 확실히 한다!!


숨은 골목의 강. 자.



스페셜 피자는 UPP, 페퍼로니, 하와이안, 치즈 피자가 합쳐진 맛이다


으아 맛있겠다 ㅠㅠ



UPP 피자는 한국에서 맛보기 힘든 특별한 맛이다.


특이한 점이 있다면 피자에 계란을 넣어놔서 더 부드럽게 치즈의 풍미를 즐길 수 있다.



장난 아닌 비쥬얼의 스페셜 피자...


꼭 UPP 피자 뿐만 아니라, 페퍼로니 피자, 치즈 피자도 내 입맛엔 끝내줬다 ~~


일행 모두 먹으며 와 진짜 맛있다 ㅠㅠ 맛집이다 ㅠㅠ 연호



엄청난 윤기 촤르르.... 침 넘어간다


맛도 핵맛 ㅠㅠㅠ



보는 것처럼 반숙 계란이 있다.


처음엔 생소하지만 그 부드러운 맛을 생각한다면 


신의 한수라고 말할 수 있다.


한입 베어무는 순간 입안을 부드럽게 감싸준다.



연말 분위기를 느끼며 친구들과 맛있는 음식을 먹으며 송년회를 할 경우 강력 추천이다!!


지금은 겨울이라 루프탑을 열지 않지만, 한강을 바라다보며 피자를 즐길 수 있다.


분위기 있고 가성비 좋은 숨은 이태원의 피자 맛집 UPP다.








한적한 해방촌을 걷다 잠시 책을 읽을 곳이 필요했다.


어디를 갈까 고민하던 중, 무한도전 욜로 특집에 나왔던


유재석이 5,030,000에 당첨이 됐던ㅋㅋㅋ 카페인 해방촌 Laundry Project에 방문하기로 결정했다.





해방촌 신흥로 78에 있다~~


녹사평 역에서 걸어와도 멀지 않은 거리다. 마을버스로도 올 수 있다.


가는 길에 해방촌 골목 구석 구석을


구경해보았다



노홍철의 철든 책방을 지나,



배경에 보이는 아름다운 남산 타워 아래,


소소한 삶들이 있다.


그리고 도착한 Laundry Project!!!



국내 1호 세탁방 카페, ‘Laundry Project’는 햇살이 비치는 간판부터 인테리어까지 투명하게 깨끗하다. 


카페 주인이 교환학생으로 파리에 살던 시절, 코인 세탁방을 이용한 경험에서 아이디어를 얻었다. 


세탁 40분, 건조 40분 총 80분의 기다림이 너무도 지루했던 것. 그래서 세탁물을 기다리면서 책을 읽거나 커피를 마실 수 있는 공간을 마련했다. 


특히 패션 쪽에 종사하는 이들이 빨래에 민감하다 보니 세탁방을 자주 찾는 힙스터의 아지트로 이용되고 있다고. 


가장 붐비는 날은 주말과 평일엔 퇴근 시간인 저녁 7시 이후다. 


카페로 이름을 내건 만큼 커피를 비롯한 블루 크림소다, 자몽에이드 등 음료 메뉴도 다양하게 갖췄다. (출처 : 조선pub)



전체적으로 밝은 조명 분위기의 카페.


바에 보이는 의자의 디자인이 독특하고 예쁘다



탁트인 창의 모습~~


소소한 인테리어 소품들이 카페의 분위기를 더해준다.



세탁소 카페 답게!! 세탁기들이 있다.


빨래할 때 무료로 제공되는 세제는 국내 친환경 브랜드 ‘라쿠아’로 순하면서도 


세정력이 탁월하다. 미국 친환경 세제 브랜드인 ‘다우니’와 ‘런드레스’, 캐나다 브랜드 ‘넬리스’도 구비돼 있다. 



세탁을 위한 비품들이 잘 구비되어 있다!!



다양한 음료, 현대미술 악세서리들과 책으로 


아담하지만 꽉 찬 분위를 연출한다.



메뉴판, 


착한 가격들이다.



여러 사람이 모여 담소를 나눌 수 있는 넓직한 테이블도 있다.



입구에서 바라본 모습



나는 이곳의 시그니쳐 메뉴인


크림 소다(6,500)를 주문했다


날씨를 불문하고 항상 아이스 음료만 먹는데,


사장님께서 날이 추운데 괜찮냐고 물어봐주셨다.


다정다감한 사장님 ㅎㅎ



진한 소다맛과 그 위로 바닐라 아이스크림이 올라가있다.


하리보 곰 귀여웤ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ



곳곳에 아이보리 톤의 차분하고 소소한 인테리어 소품들이 가득하다.



녹사평으로 넘어가기 위해 경사진 길을 내려간다.


다리가 불편할 경우 참고하는게 좋겠다


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